sometimes i wonder why.
why is it when people get closer than arguments, conflicts arise more frequently.
why is it when people are close they don't seemed to be closer on the outside,
with all the unhappiness they have of each other etc.
this is because,
when people get close,
there is higher expectations of each other,
deeper understanding of each other,
more transparent with each other,
etc..
but again,
what is love?
check this out.
1cor13:4-7
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
how important is this?
even if you're angry, pissed off whatever,
what reasons does it gives you to say hurtful words, etc?
fyi,
i'm not pointing this at anyone.
i know at times i'm guilty of this too.
just a reminder for myself, and anyone else.